YO MAGAZINEYo School Magazine

Would there be so many Teen Moms?

By Karabo Moyo

I’m convinced that if our parents were more open and communicated with us as children about the consequences of having sex at a young age, we wouldn’t be having so many teen moms.

Perhaps these conversations would have prevented and made us know what is right from wrong. More importantly, we wouldn’t be faced with the effects and serious consequences of the deadly HIV/AIDS pandemic.

Did my own research and spoke to two teen moms: One of them says, “If I had been told by my parents about the consequences of having sex, maybe, I wouldn’t have had a child – but I’m all so grateful to my loving and caring parents who never turned their backs on me, they supported me and took care of my son while I was at school”.

Another teen mom says: “I got pregnant when I was only 16 years and at first, I hated myself because I was alone, my friends turned their backs on me, and now I know and believe the expression that says ‘when days are dark, friends are few’, she says.

Parents always blame children when things go wrong and never share the responsibility of not communicating and being open about sex and young people.

Spoke to the mother of the teen mom to get her side of things: “The reason why I didn’t talk to my daughter about not having sex was because I never anticipated and thought my daughter was in a relationship, let alone having sex. I thought she was too young and raising the subject who encourage her to try it. Now I know better, I was wrong, knowledge is power”, she says.

My suggestion:

“All parents should have the dreaded topic of sex and young people at home, before children start experimenting on their own, and throw away all their dreams. Having said that, I must say I am proud of those teen moms who haven’t given up on their dreams and are still at school to see their dreams come true.”


Mzukona Mantshontsho is the founder of Nyakaza Media Solutions. Nyakaza Media Solutions is an organisation that was established to help community organisations, business entities, and schools to research, write, document, report, analyse, edit, publish newsletters or bulletins in hard-copy, on-line and maintain websites with the relevant content as per the editorial policy of that organisation, school or entity. Nyakaza Media Solutions has a vision to promote and bring dialogue to communities, businesses and schools about issues that affect them. Nyakaza Media Solutions is on a mission to develop and encourage communities, businesses and learners to celebrate the good, applaud excellence, welcome growth, strive to be better individuals, businesses and communities, want more knowledge, discourage bad and counter-productive behaviour as well as communities, businesses and learners that want to be great SOUTH AFRICANS. Nyakaza Media Solutions is making use of Yo School Magazine as a platform that learners in all schools to make use of to write their stories.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Translate »